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Moving to a new country is like stepping into a whole new world, and it’s no surprise that it feels tough, especially with language barriers and finding work in unfamiliar places. When you’ve had a high-paying, fulfilling job back home, taking on random jobs in a new place can feel like a hit to your pride. You’re not alone in feeling this way; many people experience that same dip in confidence during a big move.

But here’s the thing: every experience has its value, and sometimes the small steps forward – taking temporary roles, for example – are what actually get you to where you want to be in the long run. It can be helpful to see each job, no matter how “random,” as a stepping stone. These roles can help you learn the local language, build connections, and gradually adjust to the new environment.

Winter is indeed on the way, and I completely get that it’s adding to your stress. If being away from home is wearing you down, going back for the winter could be a great idea. It might give you time to rest, refocus, and come back with a fresh mindset for the spring. The other option is exploring ways to connect with people locally, even in small ways like joining language classes or expat groups. Often, these are lifelines during winter months.

If possible, you might also want to explore remote work options that allow you to leverage your skills and background without the need to be proficient in the local language. Freelancing or remote roles could give you the flexibility to keep working in your field, which might boost your confidence and make the transition easier.

Ultimately, the most important thing is to give yourself permission to feel frustrated and overwhelmed but also the space to recharge. You don’t have to do everything perfectly right now. Progress doesn’t always mean being in the perfect job or environment – it means taking care of yourself and adapting step by step. The winter, the slow job market, and the language barriers are just temporary. They won’t define you in the long run. You’re in the midst of a transition that will lead you to something better. Just keep moving forward, even if it’s at a slower pace.